What is Sexological Bodywork?

Sexological Bodywork® is a body-centered practice that helps individuals or couples explore their sexuality, sensations, and desires through mindful touch and sex education. Sessions may include breathwork, movement and full body touch (from practitioner to client), focusing on developing body awareness and erotic pleasure. The practice is trauma-informed and emphasizes consent, boundaries, and self-discovery. Certified Sexological Bodyworkers are fully clothed, wear gloves for genital or anal touch, and work within strict ethical guidelines to ensure a safe and respectful experience. Sessions are designed towards the erotic development of the client and wellbeing - as a way to support you to bring your attention back to the sensations in your body. The sessions focus on the sensory aspects of pleasure, touch and eroticism, contemplating the psychological aspects, yet not focusing on them.

A Sexological Bodywork session is a deeply personal. An experience focused on your body, emotions, and desires.
Here’s a breakdown of how it typically unfolds:

1. Preliminary Talk: Setting the Intention (15-30 minutes)

The session begins with a conversation (intake) where we explore your intentions and any specific goals, challenges, or areas you'd like to focus on. This is your space to share any relevant details about your body, emotions, or sexuality. We’ll clarify what you’re hoping to achieve—whether it’s expanding pleasure, understanding boundaries, exploring arousal, or addressing specific issues.

Together, we set a clear intention for the session. This helps guide the bodywork process and ensures we are aligned on what you wish to explore, whether it's a physical sensation, emotional release, or deeper self-awareness.

2. Bodywork (60 minutes)

The bodywork itself is where we dive into the physical practice. I may start with a gentle back massage, heart-centered touch, stretching, shaking, or another technique that aligns with your current needs. The touch is one-way—I, the practitioner, touch you, but you do not touch me back—to maintain a clear container of safety and focus. I work with gloves and remain fully clothed to respect boundaries.

During this phase, we stay in continuous contact—checking in with your sensations, emotions, and comfort level. I might offer exercises, touch specific areas, or encourage you to explore different movements or positions based on your body’s responses. The work is designed to help you reconnect with your body, expand your pleasure, and gain insight into your erotic self.

3. Integration (5-10 minutes)

After the bodywork, there’s a short rest period where you can relax and allow the experience to integrate into your body’s memory. This phase allows your system to process what’s happened and to settle any emotional or physical shifts that may have arisen. It’s similar to the relaxation or cooldown phase in yoga.

4. After Talk (15-20 minutes)

We end the session with a debrief, where we discuss your experiences, sensations, or any new insights that may have come up. This is an opportunity to reflect on the bodywork, address any lingering questions or emotions, and explore how the session’s findings can be applied to your life and sexuality moving forward.

The Flow of the Session

Your Body, Your Expertise: At every moment, you are the expert of your body and experience. I am there to guide you, but you hold the keys to your own growth. My role is to support, not to direct.

Slow and Intentional Pace: My approach is "less is more." We take time to slow down, focus on subtle sensations, and create space for deeper connection and understanding. This pace allows for greater awareness and self-discovery.

No Performance Pressure: There’s no expectation to "perform" in any way. The session is about you, your body, and your desires—free from outside pressure or judgment.

Key Principles

One-Way Touch: As the practitioner, I provide touch, but you don’t reciprocate.

Respectful Boundaries: I remain clothed, and we work with clear boundaries to ensure safety and comfort.

Self-Discovery: You are encouraged to explore your boundaries, desires, and sensations, always with my support and guidance.

Holistic Support: I bring both my expertise as a Sexological Bodyworker and my experience as a Choreographer to create a unique, body-centered approach to sexuality and embodiment.

Who It’s For?

I offer sessions to all individuals, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, including trans, non-binary, cisgender, heterosexual, and queer individuals. My work is about creating a safe, inclusive space for everyone to explore and connect with their erotic self.

Location: Sessions take place in a private, accessible space in Kreuzberg, near Hallesches Tor, with elevator access to the second floor.

Ultimately, a Sexological Bodywork session is an opportunity to reconnect with your body, discover new pleasures, express your desires, and explore your boundaries—all with the support of a trained professional who respects your unique journey.